Gf marvels about ‘stepson’ union. The man you’re seeing is married for the boy’s mommy, correct?
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Dear Amy: i’m presently dating/living using my date of three years. He’s got a girl (9 yrs . old) from a previous relationship that people have actually with our team almost every other week-end.
My boyfriend’s ex-wife possess a son (age 14) from a past union, whom my boyfriend will periodically make reference to as their “stepson,” although as long as we’ve been together he’s got never ever invested at any time with him, nor had any connection with your, with the exception of sporadically watching the “stepson” as he drops off/picks up his child.
We now have a vacation coming up, and my personal boyfriend’s girl welcomed this lady sibling (the “stepson”) to visit without our authorization.
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My sweetheart appears at ease with the “stepson” supposed, but I’m not comfortable along with it.